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Discover Your Birth Month Peony and Its Deep Symbolic Meaning

Get ready to meet your floral soulmate, peony lovers.

Delicate pink peony flower on abstract natural defocused green background. Paeonia lactiflora
(Image credit: Mariia Demchenko/Getty Images)

Every gardener who loves a blousy bloom knows that the peony is more than just a flower – it’s an entire seasonal event. From heirloom bushes passed down through generations in New England to heat-tolerant hybrids thriving in the Pacific Northwest, peonies have come to symbolise prosperity, romance and quiet resilience.

When it comes to birth month flowers, peonies are traditionally associated with May. However, the sheer range of colors, forms and personalities within the peony family makes them surprisingly well suited to an entire 12-month calendar.

Whether you’re drawn to the sumptuous, Victorian ballgown fullness of classic double blooms or prefer the architectural confidence of modern Itoh hybrids (a cross between herbaceous and tree peonies), there’s a cultivar that mirrors the mood of every month every bit as well as your birth month bird does. Fact.

Your Birth Month peony

To help you find the peony that speaks to your very soul, we’ve paired twelve peonies commonly available at US nurseries with the qualities they evoke – not as rigid rules per se, but as a little seasonal magic you can plant.

Read on to find yours...

It's important to note here that peonies don’t actually bloom according to our birthdays, but that’s part of their charm. Much like our birth month butterflies, they respond instead to weather, light and patience, unfolding in their own time each spring. Pairing these beloved blooms with the rhythms of the year, however, invites us to see them differently: not just as fleeting stars of the late-spring garden, but as lasting symbols of who we are and when we arrived.

So, whether you plant your birth month peony as a gift to yourself, a celebration of someone you love, or simply as another reason to look forward to spring, you're in for a treat: these flowers reward patience with abundance. And once you’ve grown one, chances are you’ll find room for another.

Lean into it, we say. Quite honestly, there’s always space for one more peony (and one more story) in the garden.

Kayleigh Dray
Content Editor

Kayleigh is an enthusiastic (sometimes too enthusiastic!) gardener and has worked in media for over a decade. She previously served as digital editor at Stylist magazine, and has written extensively for Ideal Home, Woman & Home, Homes & Gardens, and a handful of other titles. Kayleigh is passionate about wildlife-friendly gardening, and recently cancelled her weekend plans to build a mini pond when her toddler found a frog living in their water barrel. As such, her garden – designed around the stunning magnolia tree at its centre – is filled to the brim with pollinator-friendly blooms, homemade bird feeders, and old logs for insects to nest in.